Everybody has a story for themselves. Story in which He/She is the hero/heroine. We always want to be heroes. The ones who is correct, good and shiny all the time. That is quite important when it comes to life since it is the motivation for us to get things done and dusted. But is that all ? Will that 'Being the Star' motive will make you happy ? Will it make you feel the way you want to ? That is a question lies beneath.
When we are small we see people who inspires us the most and say 'I will be like him one day'. But when we grow up we will find out that the person which we were looking forward to be is not what he was or we will find someone who is the trend and we change our motive once again. After living more than twenty odd years in my life I had so many 'Stars' that I aways want to be. But after reflecting on that long years and my motivations it was pretty obvious for me that it is not the 'Star' it was something else that we were looking forward to be when we say 'He's my star'.
After all is it easy to be a Star ? No, it is true that it is the long hours of trying hard and not letting yourself down will bring you up and make you a star. But if that Star can not bring you the happiness you want then why will you push hard. Why should we have a motive to be a Star ? Then I am pretty sure that it is the Ego in our self, or the insider in our self who always want to be in-charge of everything is the reason to us to becoming a star.
But might not be the best of choice to let that inner-person win in every situation. It is true that we need that ego and the inner person to make us the toughest competitor. But we should not let him drive our life. After all we are human begins. We are 'Homo sapiens', a valuable product of 'Nature'. So we need to understand that in nature we are all the same. If we analyze the 'Environment' its all about the relationships, the helps in which it depends. So as something of the environment it is our relationships, emotions and morals which will make us winners in our lives.
Being a star is good. But being human is what matters.
